Tuesday, August 30, 2005

In violation of home teaching

Today, my home teaching companion and I set up our last home teaching appointment for the month. The rest we took care of at the beginning of the month. We couldn't get this particular person because they had just returned from Utah. Well, the home teachers of her roommate decided to show up at the same time, so we had four home teachers for two sisters in our branch. Normally, this shouldn't be a problem. We had a prayer, went over the lesson, then asked how things were going. At that point things started to digress. The part about this is that you have the most sarcastic guy, the second most sarcastic guy, myself(who appreciates sarcasm more than most), my comp(weird in general, but cool), and the two sisters who apprieciate humor that involves bashing.

The conversation started off with bashing jobs, then relatives, FHE, people in the branch and their quirks. We went off pretty hard-core on everybody in the singles branch. We were having a riot, just feeding off of each other. Then after bashing all that we really shouldn't be bashing, we left with a prayer. Before saying the prayer they were commenting how we really should pray for forgiveness for as much as we're hammering and talking incredibly bad about all these people. So during the prayer, and trying to keep my ever optimistic view, instead of saying that, I say, "Thank you for the oppurtunity we have to fellowship with one another," at which point they all try to hide the mirth present.

It was perhaps the most fun and least amount of spirituality I've ever had during home teaching. I was talking with one of the guys afterwards and told him how terrible that was, to which he replied, "Yeah, we totally violated their home." I would agree.

Hey, at least this Sunday, we're getting bingo cards for testimony meeting. They will include travel log, the friend testimony, the crier, the joker, the flirt from podium, false doctrine as center square, the lesson giver, etc. Instead of shouting bingo when you win, you stand up to go bear your testimony, then sit back down.

So what do you do during home teaching?

Sunday, August 28, 2005

The First Two Weeks

I just finished my first two weeks of student teaching. Officially it's only been 3 days of student teaching since that is when UK starts. The local school district starts a week and a half before UK. I felt it was necessary to go to the first weeks because that's when all classroom management procedures are started and the expectations of the students are set. If I had rolled in a couple weeks later for student teaching I wouldn't have had the chance to observe and take notes of exactly how this works out. While they may teach us about classroom management in school classes, there is no application involved, so I've never felt comfortable in that area.

The other advantage I have is to see the classroom management of two different teachers at different levels. My teacher at the elementary level is quite good at setting it up her way, but at times it seems like she spends more time on classroom management than on teaching. I'm curious if this is the norm through the entire semester or if it's just establishing everything in the beginning in a very organized manner, and once the children have them down, then teaching can begin.

I went to a CHAMP training for the elementary school, and so they use those guidelines in all the classrooms. This helps keeps things somewhat consistent between classrooms. CHAMP is basically five guidelines that are established in the classroom. Conversation, help, activity, movement, and participation. Can you talk, and if so, who? How do you ask for help? What should be accomplished during this activity? What movement is allowed (bathroom, drink, getting something in the room, etc)? What does participation look like and doesn't look like?

The other aspect that needs to be covered in what do you do when a child breaks one of the rules. Most of the time, it just seems to be forgetfulness at this point. So she usually reminds them by focusing on people who are doing the right thing and praising them for it and the other students realize what they are supposed to be doing and get to it.

If it gets to the point of distraction, then there is time out. So then you have to ask yourself, what is the difference between just needing a reminder and a need to be in time out? There have been a few times when I felt she sent a kid in time out unjustified, and times I felt it was appropriate. I don't like the way she runs her time out. To me, it feels too inconsistent. I can understand why though. She's trying to teach a class and can't monitor exactly how long a child remains in time out. It also matters how they spend time out. She has structured the time out so that a kid is supposed to sit cross-legged with hands in lap in a certain spot. They must do this in order to join the rest of the class. The problem is how long. I've seen kids sit from a minute to the entire class time. I've seen some kids be completely obedient and not make a sound, but may not have their hands in the lap, and therefore aren't able to join the class. Usually in cases like these, I talk to the child and try to get them to obey it completely and tell them if they do that, the teacher will allow them back into the group. With one quite unruly kid, I finally got him to do this, and he did it successfully for over two minutes without the teacher noticing him, at which point he got sick of it and was saying that he did it but the teacher never noticed and that he should be allowed to join the class. I would almost think that with time out you would need to have a certain time limit. I would focus more on the time than the way the time is spent, although if their timeout was still a distraction, it would increase the time. This seems to be one way I have found inconsistency in a classroom can cause confusion in a child and they don't quite understand the expectations if they aren't set.

The next step is safe. If a child is so disobedient and refuses to obey any type of instruction or can cause such problems that safety is an issue, they get sent to safe. Basically a room with nothing in it but desks. There have been downsides to this in the past and probably will be more this year. Last year, safe was going to the office where you helped out the secretary. This meant using the copier and run other errands which the kids thought were cool, so this caused them to act out so they could go to safe. This year they have a room specifically for safe, but the teacher seems to be more buddy-buddy with the students. I say this because of something that happened Friday. One student was acting up, so the teacher said go to timeout. Instead of going to time-out he walked right out of the classroom and headed straight to safe. The teacher had me follow the student out to take him to safe, but he was already there by the time I caught up with him. The safe teacher wasn't in, so we went to search for him. Once they met, the safe teacher reprimanded him and talked with him, but in such a way that the student more enjoyed the attention he was getting, even though it was negative attention supposedly. Well, I headed back to the classroom to join the rest of the class and left the student with the safe teacher. He joined the class before it was over and was pretty well-behaved for the rest of the class. To me, it seemed like he didn't need to misbehave because he already had a visit with the safe teacher like he wanted, and now that he visited him, he could actually go to school. Students really shouldn't want to go to safe. Later that same day we saw the teacher with two students in safe, but instead of being in safe they were having fun in the gym. That'll help motivate the students to act up if it means they have a chance to go play. So this was safe at the intermediate school (3rd through 5th). At the K-2nd, we had one student go to safe, he chattered all the way into class, jumped up and down the steps, and refused to go to time out and continued to act up. We got the safe teacher to come get him, but I don't know how effective it is at K-2nd yet. I haven't seen what goes on, but no fun hopefully.

One other issue that has been interesting to see how to deal is the ESL kids. We have quite a few, and you get quite a few different reactions between all of them. Unfortunately there is only one regular teacher who knows some Spanish in Kindergarten. So her class ended up with two ESL students, which seems to be the most. One doesn't know any English and you can tell. He tries to be involved and mimics what is going on. The other knows English, but he tries to play the Spanish card. He ignores what's going on in class and won't participate because he thinks he doesn't have to since he 'only speaks Spanish'. He pretends that he doesn't understand and just sits there, when that's not the case. I remember in one of our classes we did a game based on this idea. Basically we got in groups and were given a few incomplete rules to play a card game. We played it and whoever won moved to the next table and the loser moved to the previous table. When this happened, you were thrown into a new card game. Once we got there, no communication of any type was allowed, and you had to basically figure out how to play. The reactions we got in the class were quite varied for college students I had thought. A couple of people decided to take advantage of not knowing the rules, and played by his own rules so that he could have his own way and win. Most just got frustrated because they couldn't figure out the rules. Some of them would make a minute attempt to follow the game and others just gave up. Surprisingly, I was the only conformist. I loved the challenge of having to figure everything out on the spot. I usually knew the rules better than the people who made up their card game did by the time we finished the game. I guess you really don't get a lot of people who try to follow somebody else’s set of rules, instead they usually take advantage, give up, play ignorance, etc. That's unfortunate. I can't really think of a way to get them to be involved as much as they should be. I know the teacher makes an effort to get these students involved and tries to have other students help them learn the words since those are important as well when learning music and songs.

I only have one class in the middle school. It's the intermediate band class. I'm not sure exactly how I would set up rules in this type of situation. The rules are set, but oftentimes there seems to be no consequences in many of the situations I see. Time out doesn't seem to be an appropriate punishment for a middle school setting, but I'm not sure how you would enforce rules. Most of the time, whenever I see what I call 'band director mode' it tends to be yelling at kids to be quiet and once they are quiet, continue on with the instruction and playing. This seems way too often the norm and not effective. I'm not sure what I would consider effective for myself and that is definitely an area I'm going to have to explore as I student teach, because I see myself falling into this 'band director mode' way too easily. It still seems too early to find out exactly how the class is set up since I only have one hour with this teacher at the middle school level. I'll figure it all out soon, and exactly how things are run. The one advantage of having sixth grade is that they are all new and slightly shy and quiet at this point, so it isn't as much of an issue.

Thursday, August 11, 2005

Some venting on teaching

Today I went to institute, and because of there being so many new people, he had everyone stand up and introduce themselves and a little about themselves. I mentioned my student teaching. He asked where at and I told him. To this he replied, "Good luck, I'm sure you'll have many stories to tell me." This really quite shocked me. This guy is an exceptionally good teacher and has high expectations for his classroom. He generally tends not to think condescendingly of people or anything of that nature. For him to pass that type of judgment on a school as a teacher surprised me greatly. The schools I'm teaching at are over 80% African American. He moved in the area last year, and he has 3 or 4 kids, so I'm sure he looked at all the local school to see what was the best for his children. So he probably saw in general what type of school it is. It still just surprises me that he would pass that type of judgment upon a school.

One more item on venting about a teacher that I've vented on about four or five times on my blog already. Maybe I should give him a name since I talk about him so much on here. Apparently I'm not approved to student teach quite yet. Don't worry, it'll happen. It's just the thing that I have to do in order to student teach is about the stupidest requirement I've ever been given in a class that has no relevancy to the class. In my music education class, one of the requirements at the beginning of the class was to sign up for CMENC. That was it. Now ask me if we ever used any material from CMENC in the classroom. Not a single time. Tell me, would it have benefited me any last year to join CMENC. No. Last year I was too busy to do anything meaningful by joining CMENC. It would have been a waste of time and money for me. So I opted not to sign up for it because it wasn't needed at all. Well, this teacher must have his way in all things, and basically will not give me the grade in the class until I sign up for something completely irrevelant for the class. I must have all other requirements complete before I student teach(which he is also in charge of), so this is what must be done.
Now this isn't to say that MENC itself would be worthless, because it isn't. I do see the value in joining it, and I fully mean to this year and afterwards when I'm actually teaching. But as a college student on a tight budget taking 19 credit hours, yeah right. This guy is so completely stubborn and terrible as a teacher of teachers. He needs to go back and be a band director. From what I hear, he was actually good at that. (One more semester of him... I can make it...)

Wednesday, August 10, 2005

The Way of the T-shirt is no more

Yesterday was perhaps the second day in my life that I've done serious clothes shopping, which for me means about an hour or more of shopping. Next week I start my student teaching. My wardrobe consisted of jeans and free T-shirts, one pair of khakis that fits tightly, a couple of nicer shirts, then masses of Sunday clothes left from my mission that I wouldn't use in a school setting. Obviously, I had no choice but to get some new clothes for my student teaching, and well, for the rest of my career.

So I now have to venture into a field that I know absolutely nothing about. Great. I called up This Girl for advice, but she didn't know too much about guys clothing. She said she could do girls clothing, but not guys. So I call up my sister for help, and she's even taught before, so she would know better than most what would be appropriate and not.

I basically had no clue. I had a few ideas of what I wanted but not really. Mostly is was my sister picking out the clothes and me trying them on. Although there was a good deal of me making fun of shirts that I don't think I could pull off. There's was also my thought of I could be the eccentric music teacher and wear something pretty garish. Then there were times I couldn't remember what shirts go with what pants. I can't say that I've ever had that problem before. You really don't have to worry about that with jeans and a T-shirt. Some of you may disagree with that statement though, but at least all of my T-shirts are white with some 5K race, marching band, blood donating, or UK logo on it. We're about to finish at the first store and I ask about socks. We head over to the socks, and you know what, they have different colors. Did you know that? I figured I just needed some more black socks, but I guess that they're are other colors than white and black. We didn't pick any up at that store, but did walk out of that one with some shirts and pants. We went to another store to find some khakis as the one we were at didn't have any that worked for me, and picked up another shirt. This place didn't have colored socks at it, so we had to go to yet another store for that. At least I was fine on belts, or so I think. One black and one reddish-brown belt. So nothing there. We didn't have time for shoes, but I've got one pair that'll work and who knows what else I'm supposed to do with that.

Suffice it to say that the way of the T-shirt is no more, I'm sad to say. I guess I'll have to sacrifice my ease of not caring what I wear to something that takes slightly more effort. I guess not a bad thing, just one more step to the real world.